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The new year heralds not only fresh beginnings but also the poignant unraveling of familiar ties. Patrick D. Schoenwalder has initiated divorce proceedings against Joy T. Schoenwalder, marking a significant chapter in their lives with the filing of a petition in St. Louis County on January 13, 2025. Their marriage, which began on August 1, 2012, is now deemed irretrievably broken after a constructive separation that began just over a month prior.

In his petition, Patrick, represented by attorneys Hallie Van Duren and Jill A. Hetherington from The Center for Family Law, details their situation. Both have lived in Missouri for decades, and while they continue to reside together, their relationship has deteriorated to a point where reconciliation seems impossible. The couple shares one child, and Patrick emphasizes the importance of joint legal and physical custody, seeking to prioritize their child’s welfare amid the impending changes.

The petition outlines a fair division of their marital property and debts, advocating for each party to retain their separate property. Notably, both Patrick and Joy are employed and financially independent, negating the need for maintenance or support claims from either party. As the court prepares to navigate these complex dynamics, the Schoenwalders stand at a crossroads, confronting the realities of their choices and the implications for their future.

This filing not only signifies the end of a partnership but also sets the stage for a new narrative, one where both parents strive to redefine their roles while ensuring the stability of their child’s life.

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