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The air in Independence had cooled by late September, a hush settling into the trees that lined the streets like watchers to a private grief. Into this quiet came a petition—filed September 29, 2025—by Jessica N. Hoog, through her attorney Lindsey M. VanFleet of Buccero & VanFleet, LLC. After seven years of marriage, she asked the court to end it.

Jessica and Benjamin J. Hoog had married in April of 2018. Two children were born. There was once something whole there—a shared rhythm perhaps, a hopeful chord struck and held—but time has a way of wearing at even the strongest notes. They separated in November 2024. What remained, Jessica stated, was “irretrievably broken.” A phrase so plain, and yet, behind it, an entire small world undone.

Though she acknowledged the presence of emotional and mental distress during the relationship, Jessica requested joint legal and physical custody—seeking what she believed was best for the children: balance, routine, stability. A parenting schedule had been followed. A formal plan, if reached, would require the court’s approval. Financial support for the children was necessary, she asserted, and should be shared between the parents under Missouri law.

They held both marital and non-marital property, and while each party was capable of supporting themselves, she asked for a fair and equitable division. Jessica further reserved the right to return to her maiden name—Holder.

A request for quiet dignity, not revenge. A final chapter written in the court’s language. What begins in vows ends in filings, signatures, and the hope that peace might follow.

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